Our Inner Tribesman (or Tribeswoman!)

It’s hard to challenge what have become your core beliefs. You’ve made a stance in the past and don’t want to look like someone who wasn’t right from the start.

Good news: most of the greats weren’t right from the start. The adapted themselves and their ideas to the world around them. They let go of crowded thinking and mob mentality to forge a future only they could foresee.

Tribalism puts blinders on your ability to adapt. You feel caught in the spirit of the times, cementing a sense of certainty, and discounting the costs & consequences of being wrong. We do this by ignoring signs, ignoring opposing evidence, continuing to invest in sunk costs, and downplaying any counter-arguments with cries of biases and clever belittlement.

Let go of your inner tribesman. It hampers your adaptability & hijacks your future. 

Our hidden biases betray our true incentives. Uncover your hidden biases; the ones that you dare not admit to the world. Ask yourself: “what is something I believe that most of my tribe would have strong disagreements with?” Why do you have these differences? Are you trying to feel the warmth of an agreeable crowd or are you thinking for yourself? [hint: neither option is ideal. You ought to be serving something greater than yourself. If not, then you may be lying to yourself about your hidden biases and true incentives.]

Find your hidden fears. What negative impacts would you suffer if you were wrong? Explore these fears. Test these fears of being wrong. These fears are very likely tribal & misguided… weighed down by the distant and recent past.

Don’t pin yourself to the past. Don’t hang your hopes on a confirming future. Free yourself from tribalism and allow yourself to adapt to the changing terrain of the present.

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